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             It is always alkward going on a date and not knowing what to say next. Well this could be a life saver. People get adrenaline rush when you ask them about themselves. They feel happy that someone is interested in them especially when they have been starved of affection for long. Even as partners in a relationship, asking these questions can let your partner know that you are concerned about them and you have them in mind at all times, besides it eases tension. Make it look like a game, lets say a question and answer game, they should pledge sincerity and say what they feel like.. 1. Whats your favourite song and why 2. What are your likes and dislikes 3. What are your hobbies 4. What do you love doing alone 5. What do you like most about yourself 6. What are the most important things your family taught you 7. What do you think kills a relationship 8. When did you realize that you were falling in love with me 9. How would you de...

             Someone defined a friend as someone who knows you are not perfect but treats you as if you were.  I dont know if that applies to you too but i can't agree more..      Friendship is what people should cherish, inspite of all odds. Be that as it may, it does not come easy and sometimes it creeps in on you.  When you go to a place, you take no friend with you, none is there to herald your entry:but when you leave, you leave many of them behind and belive me you will not leave unsung. In life we meet people across paths, mend fences and come out stronger.        Nothing endures like a life long friendship. Do not let the link cut or pay. Samuel Johnson once said that if a man does not make few acquaintance as he advances through life, he will soon find hinself left alone. He did not say that nothing goes wrong in friendship, but we should mend it when it goes bad..  A MUST READ...

     Someone defined a woman as "What Men Are Not". A woman is one of most weird creature on earth, smiling and laughing this minute, crying the next. Sometimes we wonder how their emotional tank change so swiftly without much stress.     Have you ever heard of "Mother's Love" before? That is always said because a woman does not toy with the welfare of her kids. She will go any length to make sure they dont lack, she would stay hungry for her children to be well-fed. A woman whose child is sick is always scared, she will do anything to make sure her child is back to health because she fears losing her children, she will discipline her children but still rock them to sleep with lullabies. Thats a mother's love. All mothers are women but not all women are mothers. In a relationship, a woman will go a long way to prove that she loves you. She cries when you are in pains, dots on you and sometimes men tend to take them for granted. A woman is a caregive...

      Some people are where they are today because they made great friends, some are languishing in pain today because they failed to listen to wise counsel. Some attained great heights because they have someone snaping them back to reality when they stray. True to the saying 'the friends you keep will either make you or mar you. WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? CAN YOU BOAST ABOUT SUCH PERSON IN PUBLIC? FRIENDS: The people who make you laugh a little louder, smile a little brighter and make your life a little better. Try your best not to get into a toxic friendship or relationship. Two is a company, three is a crowd. Do not keep friends that will make you unable to voice out your feelings when they are making you uncomfortable. Be happy, be who you want to be. If they don't like it, let them be, as the saying goes, 'happiness is a choice'.      Life is not all about pleasing others. Make yourself a priority once in a while, it is not selfishness, it is a neces...

IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE/TANGO.. LEARN TO APPRECIATE THE WORTH OF OTHERS..        At times we let our ego come in between the people that matters most. Even in marriage individuals want to be seen as the best as thou they are competing. Learn to appreciate the worth of others because if put in the same circumstances you might not handle half of what they have dealt with.. 'A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed at home. He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed, 'Dear Lord, i go to work everyday and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. I want her to know what i go through. So, please allow her body to switch with mine for a day'. God in his infinite wisdom granted the man's wish. The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman. He arose, cooked breakfast, packed their lunches, drove them to school, came home and picked up the dry cleaning, took them to the cleaners and stopped at the bank where ...

SECOND CHANCE: IS IT FOR EVERYONE..??       Well do you think everyone deserves a second chance? Sometimes we might not always get things out straight the way we had always wanted and dreamed of. It is inevitable cos no one is perfect and do not always expect a 5 star rating. Relationships can be one messy that even if you dont want to, you see troubles sprouting from nowhere. LIFE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE. "It was their anniversary and fedora was waiting for her husband frank to show up. Things had changed since their marriage; the once couldnt-live-without-each-other-cute-couple had turned to bitter fighting couples over every little thing. Both didnt like the way things had changed. Fedora was waiting to see if kunle had remembered that it was their anniversary! Just then the doorbell rang, she rao to find her husband wet and smiling with a bunch of flowers in his hand.  The two started reliving the old days, making up for the fights, then w...

WHAT'S A RELATIONSHIP ABOUT ANYWAY?      Sometimes crushes feel so good and strong that its all you can think about. You obsess over everything they do trying to figure out what thier next phase maybe, especially as a teenager. A good relationship is one that is mutually dependent or interdependent. The right relationship fortify your resillence and fearlessness, empowering success in all aspects of your life. A relationship is where both partners gets inner peace just being with each other. We have relationships of all kinds; we have relationship with our friends and families, classmates, colleagues at work and our lovers. But relationships of all kinds should make u feel good about yourself. WHAT DOES BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP ACTUALLY MEAN.       Everyone has a time in life when being with your partner makes you stronger. When someone believes, when someone motivates you, inspires you, strengthens you, then you realize what being in a relat...