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Relationships: All you need to know



WHAT'S A RELATIONSHIP ABOUT ANYWAY?
     Sometimes crushes feel so good and strong that its all you can think about. You obsess over everything they do trying to figure out what thier next phase maybe, especially as a teenager. A good relationship is one that is mutually dependent or interdependent. The right relationship fortify your resillence and fearlessness, empowering success in all aspects of your life. A relationship is where both partners gets inner peace just being with each other. We have relationships of all kinds; we have relationship with our friends and families, classmates, colleagues at work and our lovers. But relationships of all kinds should make u feel good about yourself.
WHAT DOES BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP ACTUALLY MEAN. 

     Everyone has a time in life when being with your partner makes you stronger. When someone believes, when someone motivates you, inspires you, strengthens you, then you realize what being in a relationship really means. It means being together strong living ar a team.

WHO LOVES THE MOST IN A RELATIONSHIP.?

    Ever since i experienced my 1st adolescent heartbreak, i bought into the widely known conclusion that women have a greater capacity to love and feel emotions more deeply than men. A woman's love is based on adoration, adoration is a combination of admiration and respect. Respect is derived from power. A woman does not love easily but when she does she will love u to the moon and back. It is easy for a man to say 'I LOVE YOU' after few weeks of meeting but a woman takes months claiming she is accessing things best known to her. They are the most weird creature who ar happy this minute and crying the next or vice versa. There is always one person in a relationship who loves more, cares more, gets hurt more and even forgives more.
Dont be afraid to be the one who loves most in a relationship and can i tell you why?
1. It feels good to love 
2. It is the bravest thing to do 
3. Its better to know you gave it everything you had 
4. You risk ending up with someone who mistreats you if u shut down 
5. the love you give does not need to be measured in returns 
6. You are better off being vulnerable than closing yourself off 
7. Love isnt weakness, its strength 
8. Increasing your capacity to love will grow your capacity to bn loved 
9. If i would ask: why settle fos someone who loves you more than you love them...

 WHO GETS HURT THE MORE IN A RELATIONSHIP ESPECIALLY AFTER A BREAKUP: THE MAN OR WOMAN.. 

      This is a question that has triggered lots of answers and provoting replys. It is also an amazing question. But hey, nobody likes rejection, betrayal or just the sudden absence of a familiar presence. In terms of a breakup, whoeva is hurt more will be due to their personality, status and affection level in the relationship. Usually the one who calls for the breakup might be less hurt(not always) especially judging from that the other one might be the loyal one. 
SO WHO IS MORE AFFECTED...
  Men are affected more if both persons ar serious and here is why.. ~men are actually more emotional than women, they just hide it better ~heartbreaks hurts a man just as much as it would any woman but it is hard to tell from the outside because pain can be hidden under silence. Acc to marrissa harrison a psychologist from pennslyvania state university stated that women are more cautious when it comes to love while men tend to fall in love
harder and faster because men believe in love at 1st sight than most women do...
 ~men take longer to recover from a heartbreak than women do. women have the emotional benefit of turning to their network of girlfriends when they are in need of support but men in general do not have that intimacy with their girlfriends ..
~men remain affected their whole life. In the starting days women are more affected but they will heal easily because they talk to friends while guys tend to hide their feelings. 
~After breakup girls do the crying stuff and other stuffs that makes her move on but guys do no such. 
~A guy never forgets his lover after breakup and still thinks she will come back someday. 
BUT DEAR, HOW THEN WILL YOU JUDGE A WOMANS LOVE.. 
~Never judge the love of a woman, she might catch you in bed with another, storm out of the bedroom with tears aod leave. Then you call her several times no answer, then a few days later you receive her call back. But my guy, never think she cant live without you. That the girl loves you
is not some kind of stupidity. Women gets hurt and sometimes choose to believe that you might change to become a better person for them. Flowers and expensive gifts wont make her forget what you once did to her. The smile she gives you doesnt mean that everything is now ok. It still hurts inside. Pain is something girls live with and no matter how much you break her heart she will always find a way to keep on loving you. never take her love for granted. 
RESPECT HER. Loving you doesn't make her stupid...   I've thrown two opinions to avoid being impartial, so you can now tell me from your own point of view 'Who you think gets hurt the most in a relationship'.

 HARD TRUTHS ABOUT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP 

 1. We are often attracted to people who will later drive us crazy
2. There is probably no such thing as THE PERFECT ONE .
3. You may not break up with your partner if you have a joint bank account or a pet
4. Poor timing can be a reason to breakup even if you love each other
5. Passion may wax or wane in your relationship
6. It can be hard to make a relationship work if you and your partner have different values
7. Sometimes you will be misundestood 8. You and your partner may not always be compatible..

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