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Can second chance relationships work?


SECOND CHANCE: IS IT FOR EVERYONE..?? 
     Well do you think everyone deserves a second chance? Sometimes we might not always get things out straight the way we had always wanted and dreamed of. It is inevitable cos no one is perfect and do not always expect a 5 star rating. Relationships can be one messy that even if you dont want to, you see troubles sprouting from nowhere. LIFE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE.
"It was their anniversary and fedora was waiting for her husband frank to show up. Things had changed since their marriage; the once couldnt-live-without-each-other-cute-couple had turned to bitter fighting couples over every little thing. Both didnt like the way things had changed. Fedora was waiting to see if kunle had remembered that it was their anniversary! Just then the doorbell rang, she rao to find her husband wet and smiling with a bunch of flowers in his hand.
 The two started reliving the old days, making up for the fights, then was the plan for champagne, light music,-and it was raining!
It was a perfect timing! But the romantic moment was paused when the phone in the bedroom rang. Fedora went to pick the phone up and it was a man who spoke. 'Hello ma'am, i'm calling from the police station. Is this MR Frank Zoba's number?' 'Yes it is' 'Im sorry ma, but there was an accident and a man died. We got this number from his wallet and we need you to come and identify his body'.

Fedora's heart sank!! She was shocked! 'But my husband is here with me, Fedora said. 'sorry ma but the incident took place at 2pm, where he was boarding the train'. Fedora was about to lose her mind. How could this happen? She has heard about the soul of the person coming to meet a loved one before it finally left for eternity. She ran into the other room. He was not there. It was true! Frank had left her for good!! Oh God! She would have died for another chance to mend every little fight! She rolled on the floor in pain. She had lost her chance! Forever! Suddenly there was a noise from the bathroom, the door opened and Frank came out and said to fedora, 'Darling, what are you doing on the floor and why are you crying... anyway i forgot to tell you that my wallet got stolen today...."
 LIFE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE SO NEVER WASTE A MOMENT WHEN YOU CAN STIL MAKE UP FOR YOUR WRONGS!!
    Let's start making amends with parents, siblings, friends and many others whom we have offended or who may have offended us. No wonder Jimi Hendriq quipped," when the power of love overcomes the love for power then the world will know peace". You dont know when you or any of them can pass away. Avoid the shout of had i known i should have done this or that. You still have the chance, make best use of today. As i have always seen somewhere, if you were dying and you had 5 mins left, who would you call and what would you say? Then why waiting! Do that thing now, say that thing now and keep things straight. Remember life might not always give you a second chance so dont wait till the dying moment...

 Make up for that wrong, break that malice, stop that fight, quench that anger... no matter the extent of the hurt or pain and live a happy life free of regrets.. 
MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS COUNT..!!
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