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Appreciation matters Alot



IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE/TANGO.. LEARN TO APPRECIATE THE WORTH OF OTHERS.. 
      At times we let our ego come in between the people that matters most. Even in marriage individuals want to be seen as the best as thou they are competing. Learn to appreciate the worth of others because if put in the same circumstances you might not handle half of what they have dealt with.. 'A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed at home. He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed, 'Dear Lord, i go to work everyday and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. I want her to know what i go through. So, please allow her body to switch with mine for a day'. God in his infinite wisdom granted the man's wish. The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman. He arose, cooked breakfast, packed their lunches, drove them to school, came home and picked up the dry cleaning, took them to the cleaners and stopped at the bank where there was a long queue to make a deposit, went shopping for grocery, then drove home to put away the groceries. Then it was already 1pm and he hurried to make the beds, do the laundry, vacuum, dust, sweep and mop the kitchen floor, ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home, set out milk and cookies and got the kids to do their homework. Then he set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing. At 4:30pm he began peeling potatoes and washing vegetables for salad, breaded the beef chops and snapped fresh beans for supper. After supper, he cleaned the kitchen, ran the dishwasher, folded laundry, bathed the kids and put them to bed. At 9:pm exhausted, though his daily chores werent finirhed, he went to bed where he was expected to make love, which he managed to get through without complaint. The next morning he awoke and immediately knelt down by the bed and said 'Lord, i dont know what i was thinking, i was so wrong to envy my wife's being able to stay at home all day! please, oh! please, let us trade places back. Amen!'. The Lord in his infinite wisdom replied; 'My son, i feel you have learnt your lesson and i will be there to change things back the way they were. But you will have to wait for nine months though because at 9pm, you got pregnant last night' APPRECIATE THE EFFORT OF OTHERS.

     Don't put othes down, there is a reason for that thing happening. God is in control. In a relationship, it doesnt matter who pay the bills, who spends most, who does this or that, is all about sacrifice. No one can be you because you are unique. Just let go and be yourself. Let the surprire take you away. A good heart is better than all the heads in the world. Relax and enjoy your relationship. DONT LEARN THE HARD WAY..!

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