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Friendship and Costs- Bitter Truths

      Some people are where they are today because they made great friends, some are languishing in pain today because they failed to listen to wise counsel. Some attained great heights because they have someone snaping them back to reality when they stray. True to the saying 'the friends you keep will either make you or mar you.

WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? CAN YOU BOAST ABOUT SUCH PERSON IN PUBLIC?
FRIENDS: The people who make you laugh a little louder, smile a little brighter and make your life a little better. Try your best not to get into a toxic friendship or relationship. Two is a company, three is a crowd. Do not keep friends that will make you unable to voice out your feelings when they are making you uncomfortable. Be happy, be who you want to be. If they don't like it, let them be, as the saying goes, 'happiness is a choice'.
     Life is not all about pleasing others. Make yourself a priority once in a while, it is not selfishness, it is a necessity.
~Are your good friends avoiding you and you seem as though you are gonna lose your mind?
Dont worry, have you ever noticed that people avoid expensive things when they cant afford them. 
~Are you left with no one to talk to as a friend? 
We've all been there but dont worry, lonely hours is the best time in life to speak to the most trusted person in the world-God and yourself. 
~Are you scared of leaving the friends who are having a bad influence on you because you are scared of facing the world alone?
I know it hurts but the best thing is to think of how better your life can be without them and work towards it. 
~Did your clique abandon you or told you off that you cant be like or with them? 
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Wipe those sorry tears, throw your hair back, your chin forward and walk with a steady gait. The best reward for that is success, only your success story can silence them so stop sulking and get to work. The ball is in your court. 
~Did the people whom you expected to speak on your behalf put you down? I feel your pain.
In the time of crises, i was not hurt by the harsh words of my enemies but by the silence of my friends. It only mean 1 thing. That all you need in life is to be optimistic. Expect the best and hope for the worst. Let it not drag you down, instead see it as a stepping stone to success.
~Have you ever walked into a gathering, office or hall and every one stopped talking?
Looks like they were talking about you and it only means 2 things: you did something they could not do or they tried to imitate your life style but failed. So What? Put in more styles to your step and walk gracefully across. Smile at them and it will keep them wondering what you are up to. #have you ever noticed that we are hurt and betrayed most by the least people on our mind.?# ~The bitter truth is that not everyone will like or love you so try your best to live a modest, humble and simple life with the people that cares most. Besides no one is obligated to love you..
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